I Love Taiwan!!!!

I Love Taiwan!!!!

April 30, 2012

新的我;新的目标


最近的我,终于剪短了头发~ 哈哈!
是时候要对新的1年里,要成长咯。
要忙事业。 哈哈!! 加油~
感觉,去年的时间好快的过哦! 不知道是因为每一天都是在忙碌工作了。
就~ 在去年真的发生了好多事情,不管是事业,家庭,或是爱情。
统统的问题出现了。 

但是到了最后问题全部都一切的顺利解决。 











这是在上海的时候。




























Party Party ~~ 













April 19, 2012

真正在乎你的人

真正在乎你的人 當你和他聊天時他不會敷衍你
真正在乎你的人 當你和他聊天時他總會找話題和你說話為的是你不覺得無趣
真正在乎你的人 當你覺得冷時他會豪不猶豫的脫下外套給你然後擺出一副很強壯的樣子
真正在乎你的人 當你莫名不回他信息時他會一直打你的電話、直到打通為止
真正在乎你的人 當你不舒服時他會一直擔心你逗你開心、不斷的叮囑你
真正在乎你的人 當看到你和其他異性很近時他會吃醋、發小孩脾氣 
真正在乎你的人當你生氣時無論犯錯的是不是他他也會低聲下氣和你道歉
真正在乎你的人 或許他在你面前會有點小孩子但是在他心裡、你永遠是個孩子
真正在乎你的人 他不會輕易地許諾因為他怕做不到時你會不開心
真正在乎你的人 他每天都會想你但卻無法用言語來表達他對你的思念
真正在乎你的人 無論他發生什麼事會第一時間告訴你因為他也想你在乎他 
真正在乎你的人 他願意為你做所有能做的事不會問你為什麼
真正在乎你的人 他會很多疑只因為他真的在乎你
深愛你的人是最在乎你的人
在乎你的喜在乎你的憂在乎你的歡笑在乎你的眼淚在乎你的悲傷在乎你的每一句話在乎你的每一個神情所以也在乎你對他的傷害

All About Lomo


Recently i get a lomo.. Its Diana F Mini Leopard!!! And guess what? It's pink color!!! wow! I loving it..

Here are the rules of being a lompographer : 

Rules 1 : Take your camera everywhere you go.
Like any passion, you can never plan or predict Lomography. It's like your inner voice and your deepest desire working at the same time. Lomography is waiting around the corner to say “Hey good looking, wanna go for a ride?”
You might be at a garage, in the woods, on an Airbus, in the Hammam, at work, on the Fujiyama, or in bed with breakfast when it hits you. Your trigger finger start trembling, your eyes become hungry, your soul is burning for images. You grab your LOMO LC-A, click, ahhhh, click, now it's better, click. Then it happens; the unstoppable Lomographic desire to document your surroundings overwhelms you and won't let go. And nor will you: you're feeling Lomography and life starts pulsating. It's the best addiction in the world.
Did you know that the best photos come out of spontaneous, impulsive situations and that many are therefore never taken, simply due to the lack of a camera? Your LOMO LC-A compact and fast and becomes an integral part of your body and soul. It touches photographic spheres that other cameras can't: unexpected, spontaneous sudden moments;; the most vibrant parts of life! Open your eyes and always have your LOMO LC-A with you.

 Rules 2 : Use it any time – day and night.
Every second is special for you and your LOMO LC-A; every moment is monumental! When you are Lomographing, you're not only living your life at the present with more intensity and excitement, but you're also conserving the present for your future. All with the help of your bright, dark, moody, blurred, sharp, colourful, grey, indefinable, straightforward, romantic and fully packed Lomographs!
Your feelings, your memory and your Lomographs; they all mix up to a new, complete, more authentic view and perception of yourself and your life. You don't only perceive in sunshine, daytime, on holidays and on Aunt Frida's birthday, do you? So keep shooting in any environment, every day and every night, be aware, and create yourself, your being, your design. Shoot restlessly and give your memory a kick in the ass with your lovely, crap, beautiful, artistic and silly Lomographs.
Esse est percipi est Lomographi. Use your LOMO LC-A whenever you're alive!

Rules 3 :  Lomography is not an interference in your life, but part of it.
There's no chance of relationship phobia: the LOMO LC-A is what you've always wanted in life; your new best friend, drinking buddy, spiritual leader and lover all at the same time. You work with the camera, you drink with the camera, you sleep with the camera. Lomography becomes a natural and communicative habit of your life, just like talking, walking, eating, thinking, laughing and loving.
As a Lomographer, you are not only photographing a situation, you are an essential part of the situation itself. Life inhales Lomography and Lomography inhales life. You laugh and you Lomograph, you cry and you Lomograph, you walk and you Lomograph, you talk and you Lomograph, you think and you Lomograph, you love and you Lomograph and you Lomograph and you Lomograph.
Lomography is a powerful sign of your existence, a constant confession of your lust for life and a magnetic field of your most intense feelings.

Rules 4 : Try the shot from the hip.
A normal photographer's point of view – looking through the viewfinder - is somehow always physically finite; it's limited to somewhere between 1.1 metres and 2.2 metres above ground. But what happens down below and up above, from a dog, cat, baby, bug, slug, bird and insect perspective? Don't hide behind your camera; break free from nonsensical conventions. Don't look through the viewfinder; forget about safety margins and unnecessary shyness!
Hands up, hands down, hands forward, Lomograph from up to down and down to up, from the front to you and from you to nowhere, shoes, socks, toes, hips, buttons, belts, butts; aloha! Your LOMO LC-A is as handy as a glove and equips you with deadly fast zone-focusing abilities that let you capture a situation in a split second. Try the shot from the hip to experience absolutely free and boundless dimensions of sight.

Rules 5 : Approach the objects of your Lomographic desire as close as possible.
An essential part of your Lomographic existence is to get right to the bottom of things and investigate the world from the inside.
Just as with people, you have to be sweet, nice, comprehensive and interested to get to know the very inside of your subject. As soon as you feel the right moment- take a picture! Try it and you'll see that the deep affection for your Lomographed subject is strongly reflected in your image. Get in contact with your subject and build up a relationship.
Smile, hello hello, the LOMO LC-A is part and mediator of your relationship, good morning, click, the camera helps you to get to know your motives and is, after all, a good reason to talk to someone at boring parties. Click click, that's gonna be a nice picture, click, can I send it to you by email?, click, wonderful, click, I love you, click, communicate, talk! More communication equals better Lomography. Get close, even closer, don't be afraid: laugh and everyone will not only love you and your LOMO LC-A but will also realise that Lomography is the most natural thing on earth!

Rules 6 : Don't think. 
Your brightest and clearest insights are always your very first impressions. They happen in-between moments of sensual, visual perception where information is delivered from your senses to your brain and remains unfiltered. Milliseconds later it's already too late: your big, clumsy and party-pooping melancholic reasoning has put an end to the fun and divided your former beautifully pure perception into boring concepts, abstractions, ideas and problems. That's life, sorry... Not!
We found a wonderful and easy way to get rid of this convention: Don't think! Throw your intellectual socialisation over board, let the unfiltered flow of information circulate freely, untreated and unrated in your mind. Shoot, feel, perceive and shoot, have fun, shoot whatever catches your eye, whatever attracts you, astounds you, excites you, seduces you.
Lomography is a surprising diversion to your egghead-life and will enlighten you with true, simple and wonderful revelations.

Rules 7 : Be fast
Our world moves like a high-speed train without brakes and is entangled in ultra-complex systems that most people, in fact all of us, just don't understand anymore – how exciting for the Lomographic eye!
Movements, actions and Lomographic moments are not reading the paper and waiting for you to take pictures of them...the pool attendant with the big belly, the dance champion with the tight dress, the dog with the pink tie, the bus driver with the fat glasses, your dad in the shower. Believe us; they are not crazy about you taking pictures of them – but you certainly are!
So, cowgirls and cowboys: calmly hold your finger towards your LOMO LC-A's zone focusing meter, trust in yourself and in the automatic exposure, grab your guts and be quick to catch the wink of time and accidental destiny. Hold your breath, be brave, take a chance, move, shoot, run, have fun, act fast – that's Lomography!

Rules 8 : You don't have to know beforehand what you captured on film.
You can never foresee the results of what you're getting with the LOMO LC-A, as you find yourself in constant interaction between Russo-Chinese mechanics, raw (and quite often expired) film, chemical emulsion baths, the goodwill of your lab technician, natural and artificial light, your artistic guidance and many other factors that can't be relied on.
Moreover, Lomography is often an unconscious act that can't be controlled at all. Lomographs always emerge from a plethora of different and unexpected situations, ideas, views and intentions. It's always up to you. Your subtle play with the outside world and its related coincidences make the choice- to Lomograph or not to Lomograph? You do it because it's great fun, because it makes you curious, because it's very exciting to know that you never know what you'll get and because it allows your creativity, intuition and inspiration to soar heights you never imagined!
Living with the LOMO LC-A means always living with unpredictability, uncertainty and coincidence; it is therefore living in freedom.

Rules 9 : Afterwards either.
A few days later you get your Lomographs from the lab and can't believe your eyes: who's that? What's that colour? When did I shoot that? Whose hair is this? Is that you? No it's Sabrina… interesting, and Hansi's feet too… bewildering, your butterfly collection, what a shame, a bottle of schnapps, a huge head, blurs, surprises, smiles, teeth, accidental double-exposures...
You'll never completely understand the world. But you'll understand your Lomographs even less!
Don't try to analyse them: look at them in a different way and let them tell you their story, which is also automatically your story. Your Lomographic actions are a constant record of your existence that illustrates the adventures of your life in all its anomalies, moods, shapes, colours, faces and blurs. You don't need to know afterwards what's on your film – just read between the lines, between the Lomographs, learn to look in a different way and read their forms, feelings, expressions, their swings, their grooves: your life!


Rules 10  : Don't worry about any rules.
Don't listen to others; remain true to yourself, follow your inner Lomographic voice and never forget that not all that glitters is a golden rule.
Discover your own Lomography, forget about your education, socialisation, indoctrination, knowledge and everything you've learned and not learned about photography. Set free your innermost desires, never stop moving, never stop Lomographing; believe in yourself, focus on the important and not so important things, enjoy life in all its variations, forget about the camera in your hand and shoot 'til your eyes are glowing!

Product Description

Unleash your wild side with Lomography’s special Valentines Editions Cameras. Instead of going the cheesy route, we’ve harnessed the power of the animal kingdom to deliver an analogue experience that will leave you wanting more.

The Diana Mini delivers the same dreamy and soft-focused shots many have come to expect from the Diana family. But aside from this signature quality, the Diana Mini Leopard offers more features that will make you fall head over heels. Using standard 35mm film, this compact camera takes lovely shots in two different formats: square or half-frame. And with the Diana F+ Flash thrown into the mix, you’ll have plenty of opportunities to experiment with your photography.






April 18, 2012

A new friend

最近认识了1位朋友在中国的。他是个中国湖南的朋友。年纪大我1-2岁。哈哈。。他很好笑,幽默。

January 6, 2012

When i know about this

When i know about this... my mood suddenly turn to moody ; my tears dropping just like right now the weather at outside raining so heavy right now..

 Every year, i wish to have a chance that i can celebrate even 1 day of Valentines Day with you, and yet finally i can wait for this year, but... the result still the same.. It's can't be celebrate together and again... And i don't know i need to wait for how long again.. What should i do? Find a guy to celebrate with me? Find friend to celebrate? Stay at home? Alone at beach to see other couples hands in hands and walk on beach... Why all this cannot to be on me? :'( Haiz~~ I'm tired

December 15, 2011

男人的谎言

从现在起,男人的谎言,我真的很犹豫!!
为什么我会每一次都是被你这样的骗我?
为什么?
为什么每一次都是我?
为什么你们男生的谎言都是这样?

一开始就甜言蜜语,得到后呢?
是什么?

男人的谎言都是假的/
假惺惺!
我很讨厌你们-男人!
为什么要这样一次又一次的伤害无辜的女生?

男人的谎言永远都是假。

December 12, 2011

=) V.1

刚刚听完了Astro 的"开心乐龙龙“的MV~ 感觉真的很不错噢~~然后,就觉得时间过的很快哦~ 记得:“天天都是好天哦“, 还有,当你不开心时就做这个动作:“举起手,唱话啦啦啦~~“。

December 10, 2011

有种朋友,很喜欢.. 但就是不能追..

有种女生让我很喜欢,却不忍动情..
跟那种女生在一起时,会有种温暖的感觉,
那感觉并不出自一时的冲动,而是来自于彼此心灵的了解..

我曾经有这样的朋友~ 但被我毁了..
我接受他,做男女朋友.. 最后连朋友也没得做.. 我真的后悔 ... ...

December 4, 2011

【給處女座的1封信】

【給處女座的1封信】

處女座有時很憂鬱。也許在外表上嘻嘻哈哈,但當自己一個人的時,也許會故意找傷心的事回憶。
感嘆命運的悲慘,然後第二天再抱著飽滿的精神,面對朋友們。
那種氣氛也許是可以營造出的,悲慘給自己的脆弱找個理由,告訴自己可以堅強,的確很堅強至少不願讓別人看到眼淚

處女們不愛說話,外表冰冷高傲讓人無法接近。
他們似乎是天生的悲觀主義者,因為理性的完美主義,而瞻前顧後他們總是低頭默默地自卑,卻永遠沒有害人的勇氣。
他們絕對不會在你困難的時候,離你而去。會堅強的陪你度過難關他們在面對痛苦挫折的時候,往往勇敢得令人佩服。

處女愛一個人的時候真的是“死了都要愛” 
充滿羅曼蒂克的愛情藏在內心深處,一但你通過考驗,他決定付出時,壓抑的情感都將爆發出來,他會變得積極而大膽
所以能被處女座選中的人是很幸福的,只要你是真的誠實知性負責。那麼處女座人寧願犧牲自已也不會勉強所愛的。

處女為人知性,冷靜,理智顧全大局知性的代表
面具下處處們也是很敏感的,又多疑還超級的悲觀。
神經纖細甚至還有點神經質。
像個孩子一樣只要一感覺到不安全了,就會內心彆扭糾結。
表面看起來對很多事情都不在乎,其實內心糾結得要死,需要別人哄著逗著。

處女對任何事都要求過高,極其挑剔。
但實際上處女本身也是最沒底,最矛盾的人。
外表強悍到沒人真正敢融入進去,他需要很多關愛。
需要有一份堅定的安全感來鞏固內心的不安。
處女最大的毛病就是缺乏安全感。
就因為常年把自己保護得死死的,處女內心就是希望有一個人能看穿他全部的脆弱。

喜歡在傷心的時候,聽傷心的歌。
喜歡在開心的時候,和在乎的人分享常常口是心非。
想拒絕卻開不了口,朋友挺多,但懂的不多。
不喜歡主動聯繫別人,但絕不是不在乎。
不喜歡欠別人,也不喜歡別人欠自己。
很安靜也可以很瘋。
不要覺得他沒心沒肺,他只是對很多事看得很開。

處女的情緒,來自內心深處。
所以一旦發洩出來,就會像火山爆發一樣一發不可收拾。
所以處女需要與了解自己的人在一起,這樣才可以每隔一段時間就抒發一下自己的心事,把悶在心裡頭的不愉快全部掏空。
對處女而言,抱怨是有益健康的。
請愛處女的人接受他偶爾吐吐苦水發發牢騷

November 28, 2011

不要因为在一起时间久了,觉得感情稳定了,什么都无所谓了,而忽略了对方..

两个人在一起久了,好多年..
感情已经很稳定、彼此瞭解、不会分手,觉得已经是家人、是亲人了..
一个眼神,一个微小的动作,都知道对方在想什么、要做什么,知道这辈子就是他了.. 一切都顺理成章的进行著,就等著毕业、工作、结婚..

可并不能因为这样的稳定,而忽略了生活上的细节,从而忽略了对方的感觉。就算再坚固的感情,也会受伤、也会被别人趁虚而入的。
所以,我们要注意这些小节,因为生活就是由每个小节组成的。
如果你不想分手,想一直走一辈子,那么,请注意以下这些... ...

November 27, 2011

Shopping

Today went to 1Borneo for having a lunch meals with little sister... McD!!
The 1 Borneo shopping mall is totally !@#$%^&*()... FULL CAR PARK!!! PACK!!! and i used for 1 HOURS to find a parking!!!
Really hate it!! I almost around 2pm then only can eat my BRUNCHIE~ :'(

Then went to game station there to play those games with little sis~

November 26, 2011

Christmas Plan

Well well well.. End of every year is the most happy... WHY?? Its DECEMBER!!!!
DECEMBER means what? Its a last months a year? Is getting a new year for everyone of us...
It remind all of us that within that one year, what we had done.. =)

Well, this year Christmas plan :

1) Buy clothes - MEGA SALES!!!
2) Carolling ~
3) Sing Christmas songs - Jingle Bells, Silent Night, Merry Christmas
4) What else? I want to get a new laptop or service it..
5) Bring tour to Shanghai on 26 Dec - This time i lead this group more stress.. :'(

How am i going to settle ?

Recently, many thinngs happen on my life..
No matter on my workings, family, friends problem or relationship~
I don't know that what is happening~

Recently, really was a bad bad bad bad things happen~~
Even i don know how to settle everythings~
Everythings happen in a same time and i really don know how to handle it

First, about working.. Oh my gosh~~ Those customer really FASSY so much and “不讲道理“, “霸道”,每一天都要求扣团费!!“什么都是你们说完! 但是你们真的不知道我所面对后的事情~ But what can do~ Beside that also meet with those customer calling to office just not asking for tour information.. But is to talk talk talk RUBBISH~ @_@''' Somethings really thinks that one day only have 24hrs but feels like its not enough for me... I can't even finish work at all..

Secondly, is about what? my family.. as my closed friends know that what is happening on my family problems and yet.. i don want to talk much.. but sometimes i will miss my dad.. =) he still my dad.. but ya.. T_T

Thirdly, is friends problems.. problems problems problems and many problems!! ==''' no mood to explain.

October 20, 2011

失望和连累了你们

对,就是在今天...
今天我真的很失望,而却连累了他们。
我真的很对不起他们。
希望他们能明白我。
但是。。。

我觉得我。!!! 讨厌阿!!
为什么没有人了解我!
那天真的不是我的错。
真的那天真的很忙。
不是我要忽略客人阿!
那么你要我怎么办?
那天那么多客人来公司, 我只有一双手,一张嘴巴啊!

就因为这样, 你们却要我们。。。 
啊!!!!!!
为什么?

对不起连累了你们所有无辜的

October 18, 2011

Love you you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=exMcBaY-puY&feature=share 
The movie that i watch yesterday night!! ^^ 
Above is the full part of the movie..


For me, the movie is just very simple and plain.
Because its just a love story.


Well, after finish watch the movie, suddenly i felt that i want to go to the Island! ^^ 
Its really very nice, beach very clean and clear.. Can look into the deep side! 
And most important is it do have the feeling of the wedding at there.. **Just as the link that i post**


Below are the link of the song "Love You You MV" 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7Ghx3qu6QE


And now is the lyrics : 
林俊杰 - love you you

love u u 我像孤独的渔夫 
说不出 爱的温度 
很想给你的幸福 你却自我保护 
转弯处 只剩下潮汐之外的荒芜 
love u u 却在海里迷了路 
找不出 心的归属 
思念越尝越苦 心跳乱了脚步 
怎么我 读不懂你唇语之间的无助 
就算用尽所有真心 
却到不了你的心底 
回忆难以靠近 你是我奢求的唯一 
让我用尽所有力气 只要你相信 
我最坚持的声音 
只剩一句 love u u stay with me 

能不能别这样放弃 
能不能就放开自己 
海浪穿透我的伤心 
请听一听爱的声音 

就算用尽所有真心 
却到不了你的心底 
回忆难以靠近 你是我奢求的唯一 
让我用尽所有力气 只要你相信 
我最坚持的声音 
只剩一句 love u u stay with me 

October 15, 2011

Singapore and KL Trip is coming soon

Oh well well well~~ Next Sunday I'm going to Singapore and KL for a looooooong Holiday for myself! ^^v

For the peak season is coming so soon, why not before the season coming i have my own holiday? :P

Btw, i miss Blog~ Since May I do not updated my blog, Twitter, FB (some times but soon will be deleted that account soon)

for real its quite an annoying that i have to login the FB, and yet nowadays its keep update the new version, at first sure its make confused!!! @_@'''

btw, KL and Singapore~~

October 13, 2011

=)

I will live happily without you as well
Thank you =) 

I just felt sad~

Now i just felt sad, lonely, bad, bad mood when i was facing you.
i don know why?
its feels like other things is more important than me!
when i angry or what then only u know how to care?
If like this, what i can do it for you ?
Everyday make an angry to you? T_T
Sorry, even thou i can do it for 1 months, its doesn't mean it can bring it forever...
I am sorry!
I don feel like i can continue to do this for us !

Every time find u to discuss somethings, sure end up is 0...
Why?
Communication Error.. Haiz!

September 25, 2011

June 18, 2011

Beijing Trip on First Day 2011

Hello Guys.. I just went back from Beijing since 2 weeks ago..
I'm sorry that i din update my blog since long time ago..

Well, that is my 1st time went to Beijing and i need to lead tour~~
*Oh my gosh, you can feel that how nervous was it* 
But I'm glad that my colleagues, they all teach me, show me the directions of airport that want to going to other Terminal at China (Shenzhen Airport - Bao An' International Airport)
Erm... At first i really scare that i will bring my small group customers to "Holland" but luckily i remember and follow the instructions of my colleagues told me and so, i success to bring them~~ ^^v
And beside that, i also got meet with the Beijing Local Guide! They are very friendly, nice and easy to communicate~ Well, i reach airport around 7am~ My customer they all reach at the airport around 720am, so i ask them to scan their luggage first. And i went to check in and "THROW" the luggage inside the Cargo! =)
Hmmm... What else? Actually my heart really scare for it, but i don know why that this trip is so fun, funny, and the customer really cute..

So, taadaaa~~~ Inside the airplane already lo.. Ready to fly to China and Bye Bye Malaysia~ =p
Erm... Its tooks around 2.30hrs - 3 hrs to reach China.. China really a big place for visit. Anyhow, its fun for it! ^_^  Erm.. inside the airplanes, i talked / chat with the customer.. Her name is Mrs Von, she is friendly, kindly and funny and of course she is the one i mentioned just now --> (CUTE) with her husband...
She ever follow my company trip to Shanghai at 2008~
Erm.. she told me that her 2 daughter already married and marry with "guai lou" means orang putih at England! :o woooow!! I really shocked when i listen for it..

Around 1230pm, finally i reach at the Shenzhen International Airport (Bao An' International Airport)... Wait wait wait and wait.. finally all done.. So i bring them to transfer to another Terminal B for the China Domestic Airport... And i bring customer to eat lunch 1st..
and deng deng!!! This is the lunch set that i ordered which is cost around RMB 27.50 oh... hohoho!! The foods quite nice, not bad, (Im feel so bad that i din eat well because i was rushing to do the another flight for check-in going to Beijing..

So after i finish my lunch, i fast fast run to Terminal B for finding / searching the check in counter.. At there its almost took me around erm.. 30 - 50 minutes and then i go down again to the restaurant and found my guest. They all like very relaxing, keep chit chatting.. Oh ya, my this group got 3 customers is don know how to speak / listen in Chinese and English, so i need to use Malay to communicate with them! Beside that, they are using the Dusun Language to communicate each other (how am i understand for it) *SIGH*

After that, around 2.30pm, i bring all of them to go the other Terminal as i mentioned early and just throw their luggage only.. Got 1 customer very stubborn, because he is a smoker, he love to smoke after meals! @_@''' So, his luggage got 1 lighter, I already inform him that do not keep / put at there luggage.. But yet, when scanned, its already been black-listed.. Haiz!!! But that is a small case... Because most of the people is quite stubborn as well! hmmm.. =X erm...

Its time to boarding already... weeee... This is the meals inside the Shenzhen Airlines! Erm... Inside the Airplanes is just like Air Asia also but this got provided with meals la...=)

What else? The flight from Shenzhen to Beijing delayed for 30 minutes.. T_T but is oke.. In other way, while waiting the flight is coming, i got chit chat a while with the local tour guide - Ah Fat... He's style erm... friendly, but.. *not good to say at here* Anyway, he really a nice guy, great tour guide i think..

and wait wait wait wait wait!!!

The flight finally came at 5.10pm... And we are ready to depart to Beijing!! ^_^ Inside the airplanes, i sit at the window side there.. and i can see the sunset in the sky.. Oh my gosh!! Its so wonderful for it, you see.. This is the sunset.. Is it beautiful?

Oh... Its really nice.. I love to take the photos of sunset, i don know why? Its like natural, created by GOD.. ^^
What else? Its really a nice photos!
                                                      Its around 8pm!! Reach Beijing Airport... We need to walk almost 10 minutes then only to arrrive the collect take luggage hall oo.. =X Its really a long journey for it... T_T tired tired tired... around 830pm, finally can meet with my tour guide.. and got car.. Its really tired day for just transit the airlines / airplanes ooo... hoho~~ My local guide is call Peng Hui... He is a very tall guy.. O_o i was shocked when i saw him at the first time.. Then bring the customer go eat dinner as the feeling of rushing eating.. After that, finally reach hotel!!! Oh yes!! Im happy! Because i can rest.. But, i cant.. Because after i give out all the rooms number, i need to check the room one by one! Asking them is there anythings else for the room? But in the end, all no problem! Means that i can done with my job!! Yes!!! I can sleep already~~

May 27, 2011

我要去北京了哦
下个星期二我就要去了
北京真是我真的很害怕的事情。
因为我要在中转接机哦
真的好害怕。
但是我一定要做好好。
要不然就糟糕咯

最近身体真的很不好。
时常生病。不是上风就发烧,现在更惨!
现在是喉咙痛了
我还没有看医生呢
因为我不想要闻医院的药味或是Clinic的药味。

最近天气真的好热,我的朋友们要和多多水哦
还有什么事情呢?
这2个月里真的发生了很多事情
家里,做工,爱情等等

那时候的我,真的不知道如何要收好我的心情。
真得很糟糕!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

April 30, 2011

12星座老公vs老婆

1.魔羯老公 重形象的大男人
十二星座之中,魔羯老公是最具有传统丈夫形象的男性.他们重视尊卑和自己的形象,常常面无表情,行事一丝不苟,天生是个一家之主的架的架子,俨然是十九世纪留下来的骨董人物.
<诊断>
魔羯座的人,受到土星(守护星)的影响,天生情绪压抑,喜怒不形于色.即使他在外面交游广阔,那也是因为事业的业的需要,而不是他的本性.魔羯座 是个孤独的星座,不擅于表达情绪的结果,使得身边的人都不太了解他们的心.而男性受到社会价值观的压抑,更不容易外泄漏心中的想法.
<治疗>
要了解魔羯老公的心,只能细心地观察,不论你如何哄骗,软硬兼施,对他一概无效.魔羯座内敛的情绪,只有在他们漫不经心的动作中俏俏流露.愈是人多的地方,他和你的距离愈遥远.他不会在大庭广众之下为你夹菜,但是众目睽睽之中,你会找到一对关爱的眼的眼神.
<叮咛>
双鱼、巨蟹、天蝎老婆:莫埋怨他的冷漠,魔羯老公追求你的热情,已经转化为对事业的冲劲.
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:踏实的你们,最能了解他全年无休的工作精神,多注意他的身体吧!
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:魔羯座属于三思而后行的个性,如果你老是催他快?@点,自己会得心脏病喔!
水瓶、双子、天秤老婆:适度调整自己、尊重对方,才能与魔羯老公的大男人主义相容不悖!

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1.魔羯老婆  内外兼顾重传统
如果要选出最能兼顾事业与家庭的星座女性,则非魔羯座老婆莫属,在人生旅途之中,她们严守着传统的观念,克尽相夫教子的职责,另一方面对自己的期望很高,不容许自己无所事事.
<诊断>
魔羯座是个意志力坚强的星座,一旦下定决心要做的事,就会搬出“愚公移山”的精神,排除万难,彻底执行.对事业如此,对婚姻亦然.魔羯座代表“过 去”,所以魔羯老婆个性保守,即使她们有雄心壮志,也不愿意减少对家庭的责任.尤其先生是她们一辈子最重视的人,她们不轻易妥协,但也不轻言离婚.
<治疗>
魔羯老婆个性朴实,善于理财,她们不奢求锦衣玉食,但是期待安定的生活.对于先生的工作,譬如传销、业务代表、自由业等不稳定的行业,常常有点神 经质.有一个魔羯老婆,保证你没有后顾之忧,但是记得要给她一个稳定的生活,在事业上有一个稳定的目标,她会无怨无悔地会心奉献.
<叮咛> 双子、天秤、水瓶老公:对人生左顾右盼的态度,会使魔羯老婆提心吊胆.想要稳定婚姻,先确定自己的目标吧!
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:别老是往前冲,魔羯老婆希望你安分守己一点
双鱼、巨蟹、天蝎老公:魔羯拲C贤慧大方,但是不善于表达情绪,并不是她们不关心你.
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:除了固定的薪水袋之外,一点意外的小惊喜,更满足她们压抑的浪漫.

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2.水瓶老公  滚动的石头
水瓶座象征变动与改革,他们是滚动的石头,不愿为名利而改变自己的理想.水瓶座会赚钱,却对钱不太有兴趣,太多的名利牵绊,常令他们有窒息的感 觉.有一个水瓶老公,要学会享受变动的感觉.从搬家、换家具到换工作,都只是他追求改革的一小部分,如果你渴望安定,只会变成他的压力.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:与其把希望寄讬在他换工作的次数,随着年龄增加的水瓶老公,好像永远在往前看.对朋友有求必应,热情慷慨的人生态度,足以使很多老婆抓狂.
<诊断>
水瓶座是个顽固的星座,很多人误以为他们容易沟通,事实上在他们开朗的外表之下,早有定见.自负的水瓶座,决不屑于轻易受到别人影响.水瓶座一生在追求新鲜的心灵刺激,换工作和交朋友都是一种方法.频频换老板,一方面是瞧不起上司,另一方面是缺乏自省精神及沟通能力.
<治疗>
们身上,不如学习改变自己,比起水瓶老公,你们也是冥顽不灵的一群呢!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老婆:愈是想抓住他,愈难了解他的心,不如让他来了解你吧!
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:对付水瓶老公,虚晃一招十分有效.不要忽视他潜在的大男人主义喔!
牡羊、射手、狮子老婆:坏脾气、急性子对水瓶座都没用,他们是一壶永远烧不开的温水.

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2.水瓶老婆  传统与前卫的化身
娶一个聪明绝顶的太太,有什么不一样的心得呢?第一点就是要小心被当成笨人.水瓶老婆自视甚高,不轻易臣服于人,对先生也常常冷嘲热讽,让老公充满挫折感.
<诊断>
水瓶老婆有着极端的两面,她们聪明绝顶,隐隐约约带着女权主义,可是一旦结婚,倒也能忍受“某太太”的头衔.水瓶座的话总是带点怀疑,听起来更有讽刺的味道,对很多男人而言,严重影响自尊心,可是说也说不过太座.
<治疗>
与水瓶老婆相处,先要对自己有信心,水瓶座不习惯赞美别人,一方面因为她们眼高于顶,另一方面是因为她们太诚实,忠于眼所见、耳所闻.每一个水瓶老婆的性格之中,都有极端传统和前卫的两面,她们自己并不了解这种矛盾,只是习惯性地表达出来,让别人很困惑.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:水瓶老婆思想新潮,别用你的大男人主义与她相处,保证无效!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公:水瓶老婆热爱自由,过分黏着她,会使你看起来像个大儿子.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:水瓶老婆总是把赞美包装在怀疑之中,其实她们很欣赏你的才华.
牡羊、射手、狮子老公:和水瓶座相处,要学习克制自己的脾气,习惯她们漫不经心的生活态度.老是紧迫钉人,损人不利己!

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3.双鱼老公  性急的大白鲨
与双鱼老公的恋爱阶段,每个女人都享受着最浪漫的恋爱气氛;可是善解人意、温柔体贴的双鱼男人,一旦结了婚,马上摇身一变,从小金鱼变成大白鲨,脾气火爆,令很多太座大呼上当.
<诊断>
双鱼座天生温柔体贴好相处,这是本性,不会消失.但随着年龄的增加,受到流年的影响,双鱼老公很容易变成大白鲨,不但脾气坏,性子急,而且自以为是,不用太意外.
<治疗>
怎样去面对变成大白鲨的双鱼老公,令每一个太座都头痛.L们不食人间烟火的个性,一旦对世俗之事认真起来,不免使人捏把冷汗.双鱼老公的改变,在于追求表现,想成为顶尖人物.但是他们天性浪漫,承受压力有限,两者一冲突,就变成了不讲理的大白鲨.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:与其为老公的工作操心,不如抓紧自己的饭碗,更有安全感.
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:性子火爆的你,面对优柔寡断的老公,很容易有无力感.建议你把重心放在自己的生涯规划上,鱼儿还是让他水中游吧!
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:双鱼老公能接受你的狐群狗党,不过他更需要你常陪他,帮他出主意.
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老婆:别让自己的情绪被老公牵着鼻子走,要想分担他的心事,得先让自己有健康的人生观.

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3.双鱼老婆  卖火柴的女孩
双鱼老婆被喻为最有女人味的星座,她们淡泊名利,优游自在小姐生涯,一旦变成别人的老婆,却总是愁眉苦脸,像条红烧鱼.
<诊断>
双鱼座具有艺术天分,她们的人生重点是精神生活,即使嫁给乞丐也很愉快,碰上事业心重的老公,反而令她们不堪负荷.双鱼老婆像是童话中卖火柴的少女,她们靠着梦想维生,对现世界有点茫然.当工作压力太大,或者先生太忙的时候,都会让她们神经紧张,乱了生活的步调.
<治疗>
双鱼老婆生着一张具有同情心的脸孔,很容易被人当?邑犰R对象,久而久之,就成为周遭人的情绪台柱.她们喜欢同情弱者,对老公的苦闷毫无招架能力,照单全收.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:你们对家庭的责任感,最能安抚老婆的心;但千万别变成工作狂,舍不得下班和享受,她会马上变成干煎鱼.
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:双鱼老婆可以包容大男人主义,不过长期的火爆气氛,会使她们充满挫折感.学习赞美对方吧!
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:双鱼座容易相信别人,对你反覆多变的语言常常感到头痛,有必要检讨一下喔!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公:学习引导老婆的情绪,而不是加重她的负担,她也需要自由呢!

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4.牡羊老公  进取执着的导热飞弹
用“春蚕到死丝方尽”来形容牡羊老公,是再恰当也不过了!他们对于理想的执着,对目标的狂热,正如追着飞机不放的导热飞弹,不达目的,决不干休.
<诊断>
很多人以为牡羊老公必定火气旺盛,脾气暴躁,其实很多牡羊老公温柔体贴又浪漫.他们的火气藏在对事业的追求上,在事业方面,他们自我期许很高,目 标不断挪后,永远在追求卓越,忙着超越自己.牡羊老公具有开创性,一辈子向自己挑战,是他们最大的理想.在这个层面,他们是永远的大男人主义,不容许自己 失败,也不愿意别人帮忙或同情.
<治疗>
牡羊老公热情慷慨,面对困难,喜欢扮演“一夫当关,万夫莫敌”的角色.老婆插手,效果不大,你难以抵抗他那种百分之百的自信和勇气.不如做个支持 者,顺便帮他看紧荷包.牡羊座的最大弱点,就是对金钱的流失反应迟钝.牡羊老公喜欢往前看,就像导热飞弹一般,只盯着目标前进,因此粗心也是一个大毛病. 如果他忘了你的生日也别太伤心,想想他以前追你的热情模样,他只不过是把重心转移到事业上罢了!何不去买点礼物犒赏自己呢?他一定不会介意飞涨的信用卡帐 单的.
<叮咛>
双鱼、天蝎、巨蟹老婆:请包容他事业至上的人生观.
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:请你动作快一点,才能配合他的节奏.
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:请盯紧你的帐户,小心入不敷出.
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:请你容忍他的大男人主义!

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4.牡羊老婆  性急热情的?鶢挫Y
传统的婚絪关系里,总喜欢把先生比成太阳,太太比成月亮,女性主宰家里的事,以先生的成就为荣.这种屈居幕后的角色,在现代婚姻中渐渐式微,对牡羊太座而言,永远也ㄔi能安于月亮的角色,她们是个火车头星座!
<诊断>
牡羊老婆有旺盛的企图心,不管是家里蹲或是上班族,她们总是希望有表现,并且能独当一面.最常见的就是她们在职埸上叱吒风云,在家里高喊女权至 上,成为实至名归的一家之主.牡羊老婆不喜欢当月亮,她们免接送、会赚钱,很清楚自己的目标在那里,虽然她们性子急,火气大,不过热情有劲,是全家大小的 心灵加油站.
<治疗>
牡羊老婆很有主见,也不愿屈居配角.老公在家中要尽量给她们发挥的空间,少干涉她们的想法.不论大小事,都不妨参考一下牡羊老婆的意见,一旦决定 之后,由她们发号施令,贯彻执行,保证效率一流.牡羊老婆是十足的火车头个性,可以当一时的配角,但决不是永远.适度卸下传统老公的严肃面具,抛下一家之 主的包袱,让你的牡羊老婆出出锋头,一定可以增进夫妻关系.
<叮咛>
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:请多给她们一点尊重,别忘了她们也是大女人.
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:请多包涵家中突然多出来的东西,牡羊座虽然会花钱,可是也很会赚钱.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:请尊重牡羊老婆不同的声音,她们是有主见的一群.
双鱼、巨蟹、天蝎老公:请学会下厨,以便应付老婆经常加班,这是基本的求生技能.

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5.金牛老公  牛脾气的大男人
金牛座的老公,动如脱兔的时候少,大部分时间,他们都是静若处子,堪称“非常好养”.但是牛脾气一发作的时候,如同排山倒海,令人大开眼界.什么事情会让他们失控?
<诊断>
金牛老公像乌龟一样,吃苦耐劳、缓慢温和.造成乌龟翻脸的原因,是缺乏安全感.安全感之于金牛座,就如同壳之于乌龟,没?陷萿渗Q龟难以生存,没 有安全感,金牛老公会变得不可理喻.那么安全感究竟包括那些呢?有时候是物质,诸如工作、薪水、房子,有时候是精神,像太太不在家,还有失去尊严.所以金 牛老公是最怕失业、最黏老婆的星座!
<治疗>
对待你的金牛老公,其实最容易也不过.他们很容易被美食和美女吸引,所以不时烧些好吃的菜,花些小钱让自己亮丽一番,保证老公开开心心.金牛座是 潜在大男人主义,这一点常为人所忽略.个性温和的金牛老公,对尊严却相当坚持,在孩子、亲戚面前,别忘了让他成为一家之主.嫁个金牛老公,虽然有时候呆板 无趣,不过他们就好像龟兔赛跑里的乌龟,起步迟缓,但是一定会坚持到终点.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:别忘?F制造一点生活情趣,也要记得打扮自己,金牛老公喜欢美的事物.
牡羊、射手、狮子老婆:不要在别人面前指挥他,这会犯到他的牛脾气喔!
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:在思想上他们无法与你并驾齐驱,但在生活上,他们可是十拿九稳.
双鱼、天蝎、巨蟹老婆:撒娇是永远有效的御夫术,不过也要学着独立一点!

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5.金牛老婆  吃苦耐劳的灰姑娘
脾气好、节俭的个性,在金牛老婆身上不一定看得见.在朴实的外表下,她们总是压抑着自己爱美的心情.有时候为了几块钱和菜贩争执不下,显得非常有个性,在面对先生换工作的时候,却又显得十分脆弱,令人难以理解.
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金牛老婆是典型的灰姑娘太座,她们平常吃苦耐劳,像灰姑娘一样守着家,把荣耀都归给家人.她们对生活的要求不高,只求有个安稳的家,即使是像灰姑娘的厨房或小阁楼也没关系.在这个小小的角落之中,她们可以怀着美好的憧憬,忍受着现有一切的不便,为的只是一个假想的未来.
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金牛老婆不是梦想家,是实践家.她们会在微薄的薪水袋之中实践梦想,但是前提是要安定.她们可以忍受贫困,可是却受不了先生频频换工作.男人为了 理想,常常以成就为己任,动不动祭出跳槽的法宝,另一方面,也很难想像金牛老婆何以守住食之无味,弃之可惜的工作,数十年如一日.华丽的宫廷舞会,如果只 是一夕美梦,对现实生活毫无帮助,灰姑娘宁可过着阁楼里的生活,平静可是真实.爱你的金牛老婆,千万不要带给她大地震式的人生,她比较喜欢摇篮曲.
<叮咛>
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:现在流行新好男人,赶快回家吃饭吧!
天秤、水瓶、双子老公:少换几个工作,她们会很感激.
双鱼、天蝎、巨蟹老公:请尊重她们慢半拍的个性,她们很少出错的.
金牛、魔羯、处女老公:奉上薪水袋的同时,鼓励她们买一件新衣吧!

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6.双子老公  一心多用却不花心
很多人都把双子男人列为“婚絪杀手”,认为他们花心,一心多用(还有很多人觉得他们善于说谎,专门制造美丽谎言),对双子老公而言,其实是以偏概全,有失公平.双子男人似乎承担了太多的负面形象.
<诊断>
事实上双子座并不是花心或善于撒谎,他们是个不专心的星座,对任何事情都不会使出全副精神.他们太没耐性、太聪明了.很多双子座终身只有一个老 婆、一份工作,可是他有很多兴趣,上至天文、下至地理,他都知道一点;每个女人他都有兴趣,但只限于认识一下、聊聊天;至于说话不算话,则是因为他们太多 话,常常忘记自己前面说了些什么.
<治疗>
这世界上还找不到双子老公没兴趣的事,双子座是个重视精神甚于一切的人,所以黏着他们花前月下,不如分享他们的话题.要抓住双子老公的心,和他们 聊聊天是最有效的方法.双子老公对物质生活的要求不高,他们重视新知和资讯,喜欢在家庭中扮演百科全书的角色.凡事都问问他的意见准没错.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:对于双子老公忘了他说过的话不要太生气,提醒他一下.
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:和双子座发脾气没用,冷静一下,好好沟通吧!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老婆:当他和别的女人聊过头时,不要反应过度.
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:爱玩的你,别忘了找时间和老公一起吃个饭!

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6.双子老婆  伶牙俐齿的长话族
双子老婆总是给人家一种没耐性的感觉,对什么事情都只有三分钟热度,可是讲起电话来可以天长地久,对新鲜的事物又穷追不舍,个性似乎很矛盾.
<诊断> 
双子老婆是个“不安于室”的星座,她们在行为上循规蹈矩,但是却常常为了一探究竟,而成为资讯的红杏出墙者,也就是说,千军万马也挡不住她们的求 知欲.讲电话只是双子老婆求得新知的一种方式,双子座是资讯的媒介,藉由与人沟通,她们可以释放出水星(守护星)的能量,而获得身心的平衡与快乐.
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与其抱怨双子老婆喋喋不休地聊天,不如换一个角度看事情.有人陪她聊天,正是转移注意力的好方法,否则双子座的伶牙俐齿对准了家里,恐怕没有人能生存!聪明的老公,应该鼓励双子老婆多打电话,和邻居、亲戚、朋友多联络.她们不是三姑六婆,而是资讯的转播站.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:别为了区区几块钱电话费唠叨不已.常打电话,有益身心.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:有空也该分担一下家务,双子老婆其实和你们一样不喜欢琐碎的家事呢!
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:发脾气之前请三思,双子老婆可不吃大男人主义这一套的.
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公:过多的体贴并不适用于双子老婆,她们需要的是空间和自由.

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7.巨蟹老公  有点黏又不会太黏
黏黏腻腻的巨蟹老公,仿佛有妈妈的味道.在面对事业和财务时,却又显得勇猛无比,冲锋陷阵,不失英雄本色,巨蟹老公似乎比双子座更具有双面个性.
<诊断>
大多数人只注意到巨蟹老公温柔恋家的一面,却很少人了解,他们是最能为生活搏斗的星座之一.巨蟹老公不会把成就和事业挂在嘴巴上,他们喜欢用家庭当藉口,给自己一个退路,其实却是利用家庭生活,寻找思考的空间.
<治疗>
家是巨蟹老公的最佳安慰剂,在未来的网路时代,他们将是最先响应在家里上班的族群.别看他们在家一副懒洋洋的模样,休息可是为了走更长远的路呢! 巨蟹老公心思缜密,光是美食佳肴,不足以贴近他的心.要能察言观色,学习做他肚子里的蛔虫,关心他瞬息万变的情绪,才是真正的贤内助.
<叮咛>
牡羊、狮子、?g手老婆:用你的果断,帮助他们理清头绪吧!
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:巨蟹老公欣赏你勤俭踏实的个性,但是生活中别忘了增加一点情趣.
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:能言善道是你们的专长,偶尔把它用在撒娇上,保证效果加十倍,巨蟹老公最吃这一套!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老婆:别把过多的情绪倒在巨蟹老公身上,偶尔有点火气也不错!

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7.巨蟹老婆  敏感善变的撒隆巴斯
提到巨蟹座,大家都知道他们爱家、爱孩子,喜欢孩子的程度,甚至让先生也不免会吃点醋.黏人的巨蟹老婆,总是喜欢跟进跟出,有时候却又喜欢一个人流浪,颇有种隐士的味道.
<诊断>
巨蟹老婆喜欢黏人,也很重视独处,来自大海的她们,重视家庭温暖,也不会忘记流浪的自由.有时她们显得孤僻,难以亲近,与其费力打开她们的心扉, 不如替她们保留一个私人空间.有些心事,巨蟹老婆是不会任何人说的.不是不坦诚,而是流浪的本性使然,她们会替自己的心中,留一个小小的窗口.
<治疗>
面对敏感的巨蟹老婆,特别要尊重她的秘密.每个人都有不想告诉别人的心事,巨蟹老婆尤其在意.所以对于过去的情敌别太唠叨,她一定会感激你的包容.
<叮咛>
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公:体贴是好事,但是在巨蟹老婆沉默的时候,不要过份关心,让她们孤独一下.
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:奉上薪水袋的同时,别忘了关一下老婆的精神生活,偶尔放下大男人的身段,一定更幸福!
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:为了事业,三过家门而不入的时代已经过去了.学习做个新好男人吧!
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:把幽默风趣的一面留给家人,在外面太受欢迎,巨蟹老婆可是要抗议的!

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8.狮子老公  敏感的臭屁王
狮子老公是最具有明星架式的星座.每当他们打点妥当、行头齐备的时候,高贵不凡的气质,确实令人想多看一眼.然而卸下高贵的外壳和显赫的职称之后,在家中的狮子老公,却是敏感易怒、动也懒得动的电视老顽童.
<诊断>
狮子座是十二星座中的国王,狮子又是百兽之王,愈是地位尊贵的人,自信心愈薄弱,“高处不胜寒”正是狮子老公心中的写照.自尊心强和重视荣誉,是狮子老公的优点,但是相对而言,他们是非常脆弱的.狮子老公在乎掌声,很重视别人对他们的看法,这也是他们最大的缺点.
<治疗>
狮子老公喜欢在精神、物质上当一家之主,不管你的事业成就如何,薪水有多高,别忘了回家都?o放下这一切.面对臭屁的狮子老公,别吝于给他一些掌声,其实他很需要的.
<叮咛>
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:你会是个掌权的太座,别忘了多拍拍马尾,丝毫无损你的威严.
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:对狮子老公有意见,不妨私下告诉他,在别人面前还是让他三分吧!
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:千万别在老公洋洋得意的时候浇他冷水,其实他正需要你的鼓励.
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老婆:狮子老公需要自由,有些事就随他去吧!

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8.狮子老婆  外强中干的霸王花
具有女王丰采的狮子老婆,在家中是叱吒风云的一家之主,在职埸上,也是才华洋溢、独当一面的女强人.
<诊断>
狮子老婆外表坚强,其实内心脆弱,她们怕老、怕寂寞,怕失去尊重,怕自己没有表现.......狮子太座从不轻易示弱,在人生的每一个角落,她们都是领导者.所以总让别人以为她们不需要照顾,事实上狮子老婆很依赖先生.
<治疗>
爱漂亮的狮子老婆,常不惜千金以维护自己的青春,各种各品都有她们的芳踪.所以当狮子太座的老公要有技巧,懂得赞美,并且把大小事留给她做决定.此外,狮子老婆需要呵护,她们是长不大的任性小女孩,在内心深处,她期待着你的照顾和一个强壮的臂弯.
<叮咛>
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:狮子老婆吃软不吃硬,对她们发脾气小心踢到铁板.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:狮子老婆个性开朗,却不一定能开得起玩笑,多来几句甜言蜜语吧!
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:不要为帐单烦恼,有个狮子老婆,她可是你的开心果.
巨蟹、双鱼、天蝎老公:不要苛责她的粗心大意,她们天生没心眼.

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9.处女老公 用批评表示关心
嫁个处女座老公,身边的亲朋好友,都忍不住替捏你把冷汗:“这么难缠的人,你怎么受得了呢?”处女座真有那么可怕吗?其实也不尽然.
<诊断>
处女座老公凡事精益求精,很多人觉得无所适从,不知道从何开始.面对处女老公琐碎的抱怨,更是心浮气躁.处女座要求完美,但并不是每件事都如此. 很多处女老公邋遢得惊人,可是对厕所的气味和妻子的手艺却非常敏锐.处女座常常把眼光放在很细微的事物上,用批评来表示他们的关心.
<治疗>
面对处女老公不必害怕,把握住对症下药的原则就没错.对他在意的事情多努力,譬如他在乎厕所的清洁,那么你在这个地方多花点工夫,其他地方假装视而不见吧!
<叮咛>
双鱼、巨蟹、天蝎老婆:处女老公心中有爱意,口中没有甜言蜜语,他们是用批评表示他们的关心.记得这一点,就不会被气死了.
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:处女老公唠叨的表象之下,藏着细致的爱情,你不妨主动热情一点!
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:虽然处女老公常会为你的粗心大意生气,他还是爱你的.
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:处女老公细致的心,需要你的灵犀一点通,别老是少根筋,对着朋友放电,早点回家吧!

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9.处女老婆  善意的唠叨
处女座往往被赋与过多的苛责和批评,而处女老婆更被视为应该爱干净、节俭,而又婆婆妈妈的代表星座.当她们小心翼翼地提出观察心得和建议时,往往被指责为挑剔.
<诊断>
恭喜你娶到一位处女座老婆!因为她们所要的一切,都是最好的,这一点足以证明你的品质不凡.想到这一点,你不但应该感到自豪,而且也该相信她们的判断.能从鸡蛋里挑出一根骨头的人,必定有过人的眼力和毅力.
<治疗>
处女老婆是有点唠叨,但是她们的建议,确实具备画龙点睛的效果.在这个尔虞我诈的世界里,谁会像处女老婆一样,冒着被抛白眼的危险,对你做出良心的建议呢?有时候你不免埋怨处女老婆的啰嗦.与其为此争执动肝火,不如欣赏她们大无畏的诚实.她们是不善于说谎的.
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:她们任劳任怨的态度,不要认为是理所当然.鼓励她们消费吧!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公:用你敏感的心,带着她们一起浪漫一下,别被她们孜孜不倦的工作态度骗倒了.
牡羊、射手、狮子老公:是否该承认一下自己很粗心呢?偶尔诚实面对自己,并不损及你的威严.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:处女老婆不吃冷嘲热讽这一套,她们需要你常回家,用行动表达对她的关心.

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10.天秤老公  做他永远的朋友
天秤老公外型优雅,风趣和蔼,朋友多如天上星斗,人缘好得令老婆坐立不安.有一个英俊老公人人羡慕,但是如何掌握进退,却令所有老婆?Y大.
<诊断>
天秤座是个怕寂寞的星座,交了好几打的朋友,其实是怕出现空档,譬如想喝茶没人,要郊游没伴.在天秤座的人生中,绝对没有独乐乐的事.对他而言, 每一个朋友都是备胎,见面就有三分情,自然也谈不上和谁最深交.在天秤老公的心中,太太是永远的朋友.把握住这一点,就没有那么多酷可以吃了.
<治疗>
爱他,就要爱他的朋友.与其枯坐家中“等无人”,不如加入他的龙门阵.他和朋友下棋,你就和朋友的太太一起烧菜聊天,说不定可以搜集鴗@些意外的情报呢!
<叮咛>
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:学着拓展人生、交朋友,不喜欢社交没关系,趁他不在的时候学点东西吧!
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老婆:天秤老公喜欢伴侣,也需要空间,学习信任,是增进关系的好方法.
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:天秤老公度量大,不容易动怒,但是,你也得学习克制自己的坏脾气喔!
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:每天忙着四处飞舞,别忘了留点时间给天秤老公.他很乐意带着你,一起参加朋友的聚会.

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10.天秤老婆  不要让她孤单
在朋友之间备受欢迎的天秤老婆,在家里似乎很容易生气.为了一点小事耿耿于怀,情绪总是随风摆动.什么事让她们失去风度,变得这么神经质呢?
<诊断>
天秤座是个不容易生气的星座,天秤老婆却跌破所有人的眼镜,这是受到社会环境的影响:女人要和老公的老板、同事、部属、亲人、朋友,共同分享这个 亲密伴侣.追求公平,又渴望有伴的天秤老婆,总觉得自己只分到十分之一的老公,而不是符合“另一半”称谓的二分之一,当然心里很不平衡.
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天秤老婆有一个轻松自在的人生观,其实却很黏人,非常怕孤单.如果你是个忙碌的先生,没有时间陪太太花前月下,请不要忘记找一些事情,让她保持忙碌.一个孤单的天秤老婆,会失去金星(守护星)的美丽丰采,变成一吨炸药.
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金牛、处女、魔羯老公:天秤老婆重精神甚于物质,别老是以工作为藉口,她们要人不要钱.
巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公:善解人意可别变成唠叨,天秤老婆爱同伴也爱自由,别黏得太紧.
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:请保持优雅风度,天秤座一点也瞧不起随便脸红脖子粗的人.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:除了一颗聪明的头脑之外,也不要忘记对自己的仪容下点工夫,天秤老婆喜欢漂亮的另一半!

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11.天蝎老公 外冷内热的醋坛子
提到天蝎座,大多数的人都退避三舍,好像遇到刺猬.天蝎老公确实令人爱恨交加,怎么样才能与天蝎老公和平共存呢?
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天蝎老公和处女老公一样,总是蒙受过多的苛责.其实他们温柔体贴,冷峻的外表之下,藏着一颗炽热的心.他们像刺猬一般的言行,其实是一层保护膜, 为了观察别人和保持神秘.天蝎座有爱恨分明的两个极端情绪,也有探测别人和隐藏自己的两种性格.前者让人害怕,后者让人不平衡.为什么他可以了解你,而你 不能去了解他呢?
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和天蝎老公相处,其实再简单不过,把主导权交给他,一切操之在他.天蝎座是个一体多面星座,他们除了外冷内热之外,还非常喜欢影响别人,让他当个一家之主吧!
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巨蟹、双鱼、天蝎老婆:温柔体贴的你,要学习睁一眼闭一眼.天蝎老公最讨厌人家干涉他的行踪.
金牛、处女、魔羯老婆:天蝎老公很专情,不要为一些小事庸人自扰.有些事情就忘了吧!
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:广结善缘的你,别忘了多拨一点时间给老公.天蝎座的醋劲可是举世闻名.
牡羊、射手、狮子老婆:老公在家的时候,尽量让他有“一家之主”的感觉,反正一天只有几小时嘛!丝毫无损你的地位.

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11.天蝎老婆  诚实为上策
天蝎老婆是个称职;的职业妇女,效率高而且踏实,在家里却显得紧迫钉人,好像什么事都要管,很容易闹情绪.
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在现代这个人际关系复杂的社会,天蝎老婆是最容易神经紧张的,面对老公的女同学、女同事、女上司、女部属......,真是令她们抓狂.天蝎老婆爱情专一,在她们的情爱观之中,不要说是一粒砂子,连一只细菌都容不下.怎么样去面对她的占有欲呢?
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有句谚语“诚实为上上策”,用在与天蝎老婆的相处,真是一个好方法.诚实是最简单、有效而且没有后遗症的方式,天蝎老婆虽然爱吃醋,但是尊敬诚实 的人.说谎的老公,比什么都让她看扁.与其费心掩饰自己的失常,不如老老实实地招供.天蝎老婆情深义重,她对你的心,可是至死不渝、天长地久.
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金牛、处女、魔羯老公:天蝎老婆浪漫多情,除了你的薪水之外,她也需要情趣,别像只呆头鹅一样没有情趣.
双鱼、巨蟹、天蝎老公:有时候她显得有点神秘,与其关心不如尊重,神秘是天蝎的本色.
牡羊、射手、狮子老公:天蝎老婆喜欢有威严的男人,但也要学习细心体贴,别老是笨手笨脚的.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:天蝎老婆包容你好交朋友的天性,但请适可而止.老是把家庭拿来当聚会场所,真是自己找骂捱!

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12.射手老公  不受束缚的自由派
射手老公是个长不大的小男孩,在十二星座里,一向被列为难以驾御的顽皮角色.射手座天性乐观,出手大方,喜欢帮忙别人,这样的个性总是比较有异性缘,这也是令许多太座们抓狂的地方.
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射手老公生性天真坦率,热心并不一定热情.他们对异性的兴趣,是出自一种天生的好奇心,兼具一点凑热闹的性质.他们真正想要的,还是自由自在的生活,和遨游四海的人生.
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射手老公像皮球,拍得愈用力,弹得愈远.他们天生带着叛逆性,小的时候不爱听父母唠叨,当了丈夫也很讨厌河东狮吼.怎么样与皮球相处呢?不要拍它,它就乖乖待在身边啰!有一个射手老公,最好的方法就是不要管他,让他随心所欲.“无为而治”是与他们相处的最高境界.
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处女、金牛、魔羯老婆:射手座过于自由的天性,使你们有点难以负荷.如果把老公当风筝,你会绑死自己.学习把他当皮球吧!
双鱼、天蝎、巨蟹老婆:学习独立生活,就是最佳御夫术.射手老公并不喜欢朝夕相处,记得多给他们一些空间.
双子、天秤、水瓶老婆:风象星座和射手座一样,都是往前看的星座,你们在沟通上虽然没问题,不过得注意一下现实生活.
牡羊、狮子、射手老婆:不要为射手座的直率言论生气,不做作的性格,也代表他们不会说谎.

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12.射手老婆  来去自如的流星
每天带着笑容的射手老婆,总是尽力让自己在自由与家务之间保持平衡,有钱没钱,她们永远一张笑嘻嘻的脸孔.开开心心的射手老婆,终其一生都在找寻她们的目标,她们会花很多钱旅行,或者虎头蛇尾地学习一些事情,然而这都只是过程,她们真正要的,是心灵上的平衡与宁静.
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射手座在十二星座之中,代表宗教与哲学,对于人生,射手老婆自有一套哲理.她们是宇宙的流星,来去自如地穿梭在前世今生的旅程中.当她们找不到精神的寄讬,射手老婆也会有点低潮.购物、旅行、赚钱、家庭,对她们而言,都只是追寻人生真谛的一部分.
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射手老婆有时候显很莽撞,对人生似乎没什么计画.她们忙着赚钱花钱,真正的目的还是体验人生.千万不要用家事和孩子拴着射手老婆,过多的俗务缠身,会使她们的天使面孔上出现阴影.射手老婆最需要的是自由,放她们单飞吧!
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双鱼、巨蟹、天蝎老公:射手老婆个性独立,把你丰富的爱心留给子女吧!
金牛、处女、魔羯老公:射手老婆不会和你的大男人主义对立,但是多给她一些自由,更能增进你们的关系.
双子、天秤、水瓶老公:射手老婆自有一番哲理,有空多和她们谈谈心,你会有意外的收获.
牡羊、狮子、射手老公:射手老婆和你一样性急,一样不爱被管束,吹胡子瞪眼那一套,早就过时啦!